Ten Signs You May Be Dating the Wrong Person

1. You feel compelled to read a listicle entitled Ten Signs You May Be Dating the Wrong Person.

2. That’s pretty much it.

3. Seriously, though. If you have any doubts about the long-term potential of your relationship, odds heavily favor those doubts being justified.

4. There likely exists a person in this world who you will not have the same doubts about. You will be confident in your feelings for them from the very beginning.

5. And I don’t necessarily mean you will fall in “love at first sight”. However long romantic feelings take to develop, once the relationship gets going your faith in it will only increase over time.

6. Which isn’t to say that you won’t encounter bumps in the road. Issues will arise. However, instead of making you question whether the relationship is worth your while, these obstacles will motivate you to invest yourself that much more in making the relationship work.

7. That depth of feeling if shared by two people has endless potential for them both.

8. At any rate, that is my amateur love advice. Take it only for what it is.

9. Which is just generally a good practice, especially when it comes to listicles. Most of them are quite stupid.

10. LOL, internet.


  1. I liked it too! Well, I’m not dating anyone at this time but was curious about your list anyway. I’ve yet to be in a long-term relationship that I didn’t start doubting at some point. It would be great to be in a relationship with someone who inspired me to want to try harder rather than start thinking “what an idiot” and want to run for the hills! Sigh…

    Gayle ~


      1. Thanks. I think it’s good to have high standards when looking (or allowing) others into our lives. But first you have to have a clue as to what is acceptable behavior and what isn’t. I hadn’t learned that yet. 🙂 I hope I have by now! We’ll see…

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